If there is one characteristic that most appeals to me in the feminine it is softness.
I love the softness I perceive in the feminine.
I love my own feminine softness.
I just love softness. I want to be soft, soft, soft. I want the world to be soft, soft, soft.
I know you are supposed to want a yin/yang balance of soft and hard. Yin/yang balances are boring, aren' t they? Go for what you really like.
Certain areas thrive on contrast. My aesthetic taste, my taste in food, aren't exclusively soft. And (but I think this is unfortunate, to put it mildly) we need hardness in order to negotiate this hard world better, of course. But generally to want a balance of soft and hard seems to me like wanting a balance of peace and war.
When a character in some story is lambasted for being too soft I instinctively sypathise/empathise. For instance, King Edward's gay son in the film Braveheart, who prefers wearing pretty clothes to fighting battles. Oh wouldn't it be good if the whole world preferred wearing pretty clothes to fighting battles?
In my sexual fantasies I am all soft. In fact I think of my sexuality as a big softness inside me that sometimes gets activated.
Being a victim on account of softness feels sexy to me. It also feels like a kind of martyrdom for the belief in softness.
Oh meet my softness...
Very pretty thoughts. Some images that it brought to mind for me: A soft pink rose in a slender cut crystal vase. A beautifully soft curving knit dress cinched with a thin black patent belt. A pair of softly curving female legs in sheer stockings, punctuated with pair of black stiletto heels. And dare I say it, a soft feminine lover embraced by her much harder-edged masculine lover's arms. We see soft by its contrast to hard. No question I crave the softness, but I want to embrace some of the harder edges in life, if only to better appreciate the soft things.
ReplyDeleteThanks Heather. Lovely images. You are a true connoisseur of feminine softness. x x
ReplyDeleteBy the way, the artwork you've illustrated your pages with is very romantic and tasteful. The lovely girl on this page makes me quiver with desire to be her and feel what she is feeling.
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Thanks, darling. I'm glad we share the same exquisite taste. I'm thrilled that you like the picture of me! It makes me quiver too!
ReplyDeleteAnd I just love your avatar. I have written on Mirror Sister (see below) how in a sense we really are our avatars. So you really are that lovely, sexy, foxy lady. That's how I think of you. x x
http://mirrorsister.blogspot.co.uk/2011/10/you-are-who-you-are.html