My crossdreaming is like a great big blob of pink jello that descends softly, slowly but inevitably upon me every so often (well, quite often, actually). It submerges me, I surrender to it helplessly - which of course being a sub, femme sort of person is the sort of thing I enjoy.
Sex is the elixir of life, and sexual feelings are so revealing, oh so deeply revealing, of who you truly are. In fact not quite that: they ere not an indicative symptom, they are who you truly are in their own right.
Oh but I don't know really about what's really true, scientifically, philosophically speaking. I'm just a girl submerged under delicious pink jello, right? xxx
Transfraction? Why not just emphasize the truth for the substantial fraction of fetishists that develop dysphoric feelings, that they share the same fetish with the pure fetishists and that their dysphoric feelings will routinely be the psychological internalization of the fetishism. In addition, under what conditions could the individual speculate that their dysphoria be linked with feelings that are etiological to the fetishism.
ReplyDeleteCL is so crude, it is painful to read!
Hi wxh,
DeleteI think you have adopted an intellectual system which can account for all criticisms on its own terms. This gives you a sense of philosophical superiority which you display brazenly. To others you appear arrogant and dogmatic, causing them to dismiss your beliefs as disdainfully as you dismiss theirs.
While deconstructing gender essentialism can be liberating, your uncompromising hostility to trans essentialism leads to a confinement of mtf crossdreamers to essential masculinity with masochistic porn.
I find most of the discourse on Crossdream Life intelligent, open-minded and humane. Your lack of respect for others doesn't serve your cause well.
Hope you're happy anyway. xxx
I am baffled as to why someone like yourself, obviously intellectually driven in other regards, can be be so indifferent to the brazen nonsense of crossdreaming. I can only think that it is due to a similar idealization as of the dysphoric fetishists? The idealization is where there is conflict, where without there is anything but, for example the messages I receive on reddit or on my tumblr. How is it that I am painted as the antagonist?.. is not every criticism of Jack correct and is my conduct not justified in light of his intentional manipulation, lies and general lack of integrity? Must I make another language or a double standard for the contingent that do not like MEF?
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In regards to a confinement of sexualized emasculation anxiety, that is what does seem to be phenomenologically disclosed? Is it not then a question of intellectual integrity? You already know that in the very terms of the model, that the etiology is based in an anxiety which doesn't exclude any presence of substantial "femaleness", simply that it shouldn't be very common. And what is of great importance, being the recognition of what can be legitimate feelings and identification, regardless of origin.
If you haven't already discovered this tumblr, it is great!
http://sissylikes.tumblr.com/
Oh honey lets not argue. I know you've got a great brain, I know that. And it's refreshing that you're totally into crossdreamy sexy fun.
ReplyDeleteOh yes I just absolutely love sissylikes! xxx