Trans outer self

When describing yourself as 'I', I encourage you not to identify that 'I' with your rl appearance and persona.

Identify as your inner woman.

Consider that what's trans about you is not your inner woman, it's your outer man.

You can think of your rl self as being like yourself working in a job. Many people would say that at work they are not fully 'being themselves'. But your work self is not a false self, it's more like a sub-self that develops through negotiating its environment. No need to resent or dislike it: the world is not ideal, we have to adapt.

If you are comfortable with that trans element you are 'non-dysphoric'.

Yet your inner self is a vast realm. If you just regard it as an introjection of your outer self you are wasting much of its potential.

If you feel a calling to be transgender in your inner self then enjoy going with it. It's an exciting adventure.

Your 'I' is the gender you choose it to be.

The sexier the better.

Your sexuality comes from deep with in you. xxx