'cd' stands for 'crossdreaming' of course.
I have coined the term because on the one hand it presents the female identification upfront; on the other, it contextualises it within mtf crossdreaming, so doesn't assert an actual membership of the classes transsexuals (t-girl) or females (girl). And 'girl' sounds sexier than 'woman' to me.
Crossdreaming gender identification can be awkward. The identification is what it's all about. The identification is your sexuality and therefore your right. It doesn't have to be justified by any belief in objective womanhood. The f identification creates the stimulation, which can be a deeply liberating, subtle and interesting feeling, not just a shallow thrill. And if you are a crossdreamer you ARE a cd-girl, i.e. you DO identify as f within your sexuality (an important, deep and revealing area, as I keep on insisting), even if acknowledging this at other times might make you uncomfortable.
You owe it to your inner female and your sexuality to acknowledge that you are a cd-girl, to identify at least sometimes as her, rather than as a male with an issue.
Kisses,
Debs xxx
Like it or not, in my sexuality I am every bit as girly as the females in all these pictures I upload
Go, CD-girl!
ReplyDeleteI've always felt there's something onomatopoeic about the word 'girl'. 'Woman' doesn't have the same ring. Plus, it contains the word 'man' (a long-standing grievance of feminists!) My only reservation is that 'CD' is already established as an abbreviation for 'crossdressing', isn't it?
(Nice photo, by the way.)
Thanks honey - nice comment! Onatomatopoeic 'girl' - smart thought! Yes, I like the word 'girl'!
ReplyDeleteAgree about 'CD' confusion but can't think of a way round it. xx